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In the name of God, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate Once again I find myself musing about Satan. He is a striking, almost pathetic figure: a djinn (immaterial being) who was foremost in worship turned bitter and vengeful upon witnessing God's love for man. I wonder what his feelings towards God were. What drove his anger? Jealousy? Perhaps he wished to know what it would be like to be loved as a man by God, a wish that could never be granted without becoming himself one of the hateful humans. But is it really jealousy that drove his anger? Here we have a complex web of emotions: anger, jealousy, spite, perhaps even self-hatred. How can it be disentangled to make sense of Satan's experiences sympathetically ? By this, I do not mean to agree or condone his motivations, but to understand them as though we were in his place. In the Holy Qur'an, the following story is reported of Iblis or Satan's fall from grace (7:11-18, tr. Abdel-Haleem):      We created you, We ...

On Spite and Satan

Why is Satan irredeemable?

In the name of God, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate

Satan poses a unique problem to a theory of volition. Consider the following points:
  1. He chose and continues to choose to disobey God
  2. He knows that disobeying God will result in his own doom
  3. He knows that he can repent (yet does not even attempt to do so)
  4. He knows the above as a certainty — he not only thinks 2–3 are probable, but that they are necessary
A consideration of the above points will certainly strike one as odd. Satan does not seem to be acting in a sane manner, let alone rationally.

Yet he is clearly not irrational. If he were irrational — if, say, he had a disordered thought process such that he could not link antecedents and consequents or reason through different actions and evaluate what will best achieve his goal— then he would not be so successful in deterring us humans. Yet he seems to have no trouble with having a goal and carrying out the requisite actions needed to achieve that goal i.e. in leading humans astray.

Nor does he seem to be insane in the sense of being out of touch with reality. He seems to know and appreciate the points 2 & 3 above, both of which are the features relevant to reality. His insanity seems to be his unwillingness to repent.

In this essay, I want to argue that Satan is not motivated by rage, envy, revenge, pride, or even despair, but by spite.

What does Satan desire?

The general story of desire is something like this: when we desire, we are aiming to get something. When I desire a banana, I am disposed to act in such a way so as to get the banana. Satan desires something, so he is motivated or disposed to act in a way to get that desire.

“Satisfying” a desire is a specific jargon term. It means that the desire is achieved, i.e. satisfied. This may not result in a happy state of mind. My desire may be misled — I may desire a banana without knowing that I am allergic to them. The satisfaction of the desire for the banana would result in hives, yet the desire would have been satisfied in some minimal sense.

Why even think that Satan desires anything at all? After all, desire is not necessarily the only thing that can motivate action. Some action is non-volitional; my action of jumping when I am scared is not because I chose to do so, but because of an instinct or a reflex. It seems wrong to say that Satan’s long-standing decision to misguide mankind is due to something like a reflex. After all, it is clearly a determination that he makes, a reasoned (if perverse) determination with a clear logic (Qur’an 7:16–17, all translations are from Abdul Haleem):

 “And then Iblis [Satan] said, ‘Because You have put me in the wrong, I will lie in wait for them all on Your straight path: Then I will come to them from before them and from behind them and on their right and on their left, and You will not find most of them grateful [to You].’”

But maybe there are other mental states that can motivate volitional action. Consider beliefs. If I believe that it is good for me to eat a banana because it will give me vitamin K, I will be motivated to eat. But belief doesn’t seem to be a sufficient condition to necessitate an action. Perhaps Satan believes it is good (his good or the general good) to set people on the false path. He seems to think it is his right to do so — note that he says that God has put him in the wrong, rather than the reverse. But this belief does not seem to motivate action. Rather, it seems that my belief that bananas are good for me trigger a desire in me to eat something. The desire is motivating the actions.

So we can say that Satan may believe he is in the right — that he is performing a good by misguiding people — but we still don’t know (a) why he thinks this is good; and (b) what sort of desire this triggers in him.

So Satan desires something because he is making decisions to achieve a goal over a very long period of time. His decisions are motivated by some desire. Of course, the obvious desire is to land humans in Hell. But what is the triggering desire, what is “keeping him going,” so to speak? Why does he find this to be a valuable goal?

What is spite?

Spite is a unique phenomenon. It may be triggered by another emotion or event or mental state, say by shame or by rage, but it seems to be constituted by something else entirely.

In Notes from the Underground by Fyodor Dostoevsky, the narrator reports that he is the most spiteful man alive. (We later learn that his spite has been triggered by shame.) He says:

“I got to the point of feeling a sort of secret abnormal, despicable enjoyment in returning home to my corner on some disgusting Petersburg night, acutely conscious that that day I had committed a loathsome action again, that what was done could never be undone, and secretly, inwardly gnawing, gnawing at myself for it, tearing and consuming myself till at last the bitterness turned into a sort of shameful accursed sweetness, and at last — into positive real enjoyment! Yes, into enjoyment, into enjoyment! I insist upon that. I have spoken of this because I keep wanting to know for a fact whether other people feel such enjoyment? I will explain; the enjoyment was just from the too intense consciousness of one’s own degradation; it was from feeling oneself that one had reached the last barrier, that it was horrible, but that it could not be otherwise; that there was no escape for you; that you never could become a different man; that even if time and faith were still left for you to change into something different you would most likely not wish to change; or if you did wish to, even then you would do nothing; because perhaps in reality there was nothing for you to change into.”

When we analyse spite, we come across some peculiar features:
  1. It has a sort of embittered enjoyment.
  2. The enjoyment is constituted by, and not despite, the depravity and finality of one’s actions. The sense of self-degradation is crucial to spite.
  3. Spite causes a sort of freezing of self-evolution; one closes off the possibilities of change for oneself.
  4. By closing off the possibilities of self-improvement (and self-degradation, too, though for a different reason: because there is no lower point that one can degrade to!), one feels a sense of ‘accomplishment’ in reaching some heretofore forbidden nadir. There is a sense of pride in the degradation.
  5. The closing off of possibilities for the self involves a sort of giving up of responsibility. It is as though one has placed her free will at the doorstep of fate, saying, “You have given me this, I hate it, I refuse to live up to it, and I leave the responsibility of this to you.” By giving up responsibility, one starts to blame fate, and hates fate. But because one is aware that actions are in fact chosen by her, she experiences the “gnawing” of her conscience.
  6. Spite requires a self-image in order to be enjoyable; if one does not have a sense of self-degradation, but was just degraded, then one would be merely humiliated. But because of being aware of one’s degradation, one can instead (choose to) revel in it.
  7. Spite feeds off of immoral actions that create a self-image.
  8. The actions themselves may be relatively banal; rather, it is the awareness of having fallen, acknowledging that one has fallen, and refusing to get up, but instead revelling in it, that spite requires.
The irredeemability of spite

Spite is different from anger, shame, pride, and despair, though they all seem to culminate it and be concentrated within the spite. The crucial difference between them is that the spiteful person is generally irredeemable. This is because her decisions and attitude don’t stem out of lack of knowledge or mental ability; rather, they originate in a fundamentally perverse orientation to all the relevant facts. There is no appeal that one can make to a spiteful person to bring them out of their spite.

Consider Gollum in The Lord of the Rings. Prior to meeting Frodo, he is not aware of his degradation because he is so blinded by his lust for the Ring. Frodo’s compassion pulls him out of this ignorance into an awareness of his degradation. However, rather than revelling in it, he is ashamed of himself, and so he betters himself. He is not spiteful. It is only when he feels betrayed by Frodo that he is both degraded and aware of his degradation. At that point, he is spiteful. Were Frodo to be kind to him again, he would not accept it out of spite.*

How can one persuade a spiteful person to change her ways? You cannot tell her that she is harming herself, because that is exactly why it is spite and not just revenge. You cannot tell her any new fact that would change her knowledge of the situation because she is aware of the situation fully*. You cannot appeal to the good of others, because that is exactly who the spite is directed against. You cannot somehow ‘strengthen’ her will, because her will is completely fine: she is just determined to act against her own interest and the interest of all others for the sake of spite. Spite is its own end.

Arrogance: Compare this to an arrogant person. A person who is merely arrogant is unaware or unwilling to acknowledge a truthful fact; namely, that their good qualities do not originate from themselves, or that they do not in fact possess their good qualities. In fact, an arrogant person may completely agree that arrogance is bad, but simply deny that she is herself arrogant. She is a type of deluded. (Compare this to the Underground’s narrator; he is not deluded about being spiteful. That is precisely the source of his sick enjoyment.)

Anger: What about anger? An angry person clearly desires something bad, but not because it is bad, but because she is overcome. If one could explain to the angry person that her anger will result in harm for herself, it would ‘rouse’ her out of her anger. Anger is a type of block on rational thinking or a type of weakness of the will. That is why a person who is about to get into a fistfight requires physical restraint, but later appreciates being restrained and may even apologise to the person she would have harmed. It is as though she does not appreciate the consequences of her actions because at the moment of anger, nothing is visible to her but the anger.

Envy: Envy is similar to spite (but different from jealousy). An envious person will go very far to equalize the disparity between herself and the envied person. She may even harm herself in the process. However, she is ultimately not aiming at something bad (in her view). She does not see herself as degraded. If she does, she is ashamed of herself. She denies that she is harming herself. There is a lack of self-awareness, a sort of ethical blindspot, that her envy causes. Igor in Othello is a good example of someone who was envious. He did harm himself, but that was accidental to his main goal: to harm Othello. He did not intend to get harmed; that would have defeated his purpose!

Despair: Despair seems to be a necessary though not sufficient condition to be spiteful. A despairing person may act in all sorts of ways that harm herself and be aware that they are harmful, but she is desperate. There is no bitterness. A despairing person does not find enjoyment in her state or actions. She may be pushed by a sense of recklessness or nihilism, but not by the pleasure of doing something bad. That is why despair is less harmful than spite. All spiteful people are desperate, but not all despairing people are spiteful.

Spite is different from (though related to and often in tandem with) other motivations because the spiteful person knowingly desires the bad qua its badness. She finds pleasure in her actions insofar as they are harmful to others and even to herself. She is not acting due to lack of knowledge* or weakness of the will. Because of this, a truly spiteful person is inveterate. The only thing that will appease the spiteful person is for others to become perverse. She requires reality to be changed, rather than changing herself. (Consider the Underground man: what could you say to him for him to change his ways?)

This is why the spiteful person cannot truly desire the good. If she recognised it as good, it would not be spite. Her spite is founded on the fact that she knows that it is bad — she is fully aware of her enormous degradation in doing bad for herself and for others. Yet she persists. Because of this, spiteful actions give the impression of irrationality and insanity. Why would you knowingly act against your own good and take pleasure in that fact? Why can’t you just stop finding it pleasurable? Because you are spiteful.

*in some cases of spite — the tragic ones — the spite may have been triggered by lack of knowledge or a misunderstanding. Gollum is a good example of this. But there are other, more complete forms of spite, where ignorance is not an excuse.

Was Satan spiteful?

I now wish to turn to the Holy Qur’an to determine if we can find evidence of the Satanic attitude. I quote here the passage from Surah A’raf (verses 10-18):

"We established you [people] on the earth and provided you with a means of livelihood there — small thanks you give! We created you, We gave you shape, and then We said to the angels, ‘Bow down before Adam,’ and they did. But not Iblis: he was not one of those who bowed down.

God said, ‘What prevented you from bowing down as I commanded you?’ and he said, ‘I am better than him: You created me from fire and him from clay.’ God said, ‘Get down from here! This is no place for your arrogance. Get out! You are contemptible!’

but Iblis said, ‘Give me respite until the Day people are raised from the dead,’ and God replied, ‘You have respite.’

And then Iblis said, ‘Because You have put me in the wrong, I will lie in wait for them all on Your straight path: I will come at them- from their front and their back, from their right and their left- and You will find that most of them are ungrateful.’ 

God said, ‘Get out! You are disgraced and banished! I swear I shall fill Hell with you and all who follow you!’"

We find that Iblis’ (Satan’s) downfall is initiated by disobedience. Yet disobedience is not why he is banished. Instead, God asks him why he did not bow down.

Satan’s reply is where we glean the knowledge of his pride. He had a sense of superiority to Adam (peace be upon him), being made of fire while Adam was made of something as lowly as mud, and so could not appreciate why he would bow down to him.

We see that God refers to him as having kibr, i.e. arrogance or pride. He is a type of deluded. Rather than God’s commandment correcting his inflated sense of self, he takes this to be a betrayal of God to him. This is why he says that God has led him astray. God is responsible in Satan’s eyes, because He either deluded him or because He did not agree with Satan.

Satan wanted God to say something like this: You are right, Satan, that Adam is inferior to you. He wants God to repent! But God does not say this. Instead, He reproaches Satan for his arrogance and says that he is disgraced — of course, how could he not be, given what he wanted from God?

But He has not yet said that Satan will go to Hell. Arrogance can be repented from; it is redeemable and indeed repentance from arrogance can be a cause of further humility.

But rather than repenting, Satan asks for respite. This is how we know that he has become angry and then spiteful. Rather than repenting or at least leaving quietly, he now wants to harm the Being Whom he sees as having wronged him. And since he knows he cannot harm God, not really, he will try to “punish” God by misleading His most beloved creation. He blames this state of affairs on God — God has put Satan in error by refusing to admit that Satan is superior to Adam, and so it is God’s fault, and God will pay for it even if Satan has to pay for it himself! He tells God this because he wants Him to know — he wants Him to feel pain, sorrow, regret. He wants Him to twist the world upside down to accommodate Satan’s arrogance. Satan’s spite is founded on impertinence about God.

Again, we see that God informs Satan that his spite will be fruitless — that God will put men in Hell insofar as they are followers of Satan. For a spiteful person like Satan, it is a double whammy. Rather than somehow insulting God, he has learned that God will consider misguided humans to be disgraced like Satan.

It is Satan’s perversity that ultimately banishes him from God’s presence and good will. It is not his arrogance — that certainly triggered his disobedience, and his initial tension with God. But his arrogance leads to spite and that is why he refused to, and continues to refuse, to repent.

That is why Satan is irredeemable. He is irredeemable because the only thing he would be appeased by is a lie by God. God does not negotiate with terrorists, you could say. If you knowingly cut off your nose to spite God, God will let you do so.

Satan must be spiteful because he has the features of a spiteful creature: he knows all the relevant facts, he is able to enact his will without issue, he is willing to harm himself for the sake of his desire to misguide others, and he is irredeemable. Certainly he must also be enraged, proud, and envious of man. But ultimately, it is his spite that drives him in his perennial quest to misguide man. It is the only thing that could drive him and prevent him from seeking God’s forgiveness.

So what does Satan desire? He desires to harm mankind and himself as he (thinks he) has been wronged. He wants to spite God by presenting him with his own blackened heart. He wants to shirk accountability for his choices and blame them on God. For this he is willing to suffer in Hell.

Satan is cursed because the desire to spite God can never be satisfied, he cannot be pulled out of his spite, and it necessarily results in harm to himself.

What can we learn from Satan’s spite?

Why does it matter that Satan is spiteful?

First, it challenges the idea that we all desire to act for the sake of the good. Satan seems to be acting because he knows it is bad and harmful. In some very minimal sense this is “good” or agreeable to him, but not in a robust sense.

Secondly, we know that God has promised to forgive people who repent, but spite is the one vice where there is no ability to repent. If a person is spiteful enough, she is deaf to anything but her own desire to ‘get back’ at others. She has condemned herself, though God has not.

Ultimately, we learn from the story of Satan that one cannot ask for perversity. Though one can sin, repent, sin some more, and keep repenting — indeed, God seems to have created us for this very cycle — one should not begin to derive pleasure from degradation.

That is why shame is important. Shame reminds us that degradation is bad. It may not stop us from sinning, but it prevents us from becoming perverse. It is crucial to feel ashamed for one’s actions so that one does not fall into the pleasure of spite, the morbid enjoyment in self-degradation. It is crucial that we do not become Underground men.

Many of us are spiteful against God. Sometimes it is triggered by sadness, say by the loss of a loved one. We cannot understand and so we begin to blame God. We say: You should repent for what You have done. Sometimes it is triggered by anger. In every case, there is an element of self-hatred building on God- or fate-hatred. We want God, or somebody, to be responsible for our choices. We hate responsibility, we hate knowing that we hate it, and we hate whoever gave it to us.

The symbolism of fire

Lastly, I wish to comment briefly on the symbolism of Satan being made from a smokeless fire. In Islamic myth, Satan is a djinn, which is a species of creature that possess free will and are made from smokeless fire. Djinn are not necessarily bad; like us, they can decide to act ethically or not. But let us think about the symbolism of Satan’s fire.

There is an obvious relation between fire and anger. When one thinks of a fiery person, we think of an unruly, often enraged, person. When one is very, very angry, she may begin to feel consumed by a sort of enraging fire.

But fire also possess another unique quality: it is self-consuming. In its rage, fire destroys its very source. Its destructiveness isn’t interesting for destroying other things (many phenomena do that), but for destroying itself. This is similar to Satan, and to spite in general. He destroys his chance at felicity by being spiteful and refusing to repent.

Conclusion

There are some who say that the Satanic tale is driven by love. He loved God so much that he could not bear to bow down to anybody else. He loves God because he continues to ‘play the role’ of the villain for the sake of God’s plan for man. Indeed, it is difficult to read narratives of Satan without seeing him as a sort of tragic hero.

But love too can be perverse. Even if Satan loves God, he is demanding from God something that is fundamentally at odds with reality. Spiteful people can be in love, but their love is tainted by their spite. Their love wishes to debase others, rather than uplifting themselves.

I pray that God forgives us and grants us guidance to His mercy, love, and beauty. And God knows best.

-MM, March 2nd, 2019

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